Like anything, sex is not perfect, it was never meant to be and it never will be. But sex should always feel sacred, you should always feel respected and comfortable enough to get creative. Therefore, you deserve to be discerning of who you let enter your most sacred space. Wait a minute…..Isn’t sex supposed to be nasty, filthy and base? You ask. Well, No! It is only in modern society, that sex has become completely externally focused. It has become an objectification of form, mired in fantasy, watched from the side-lines as “spectator” through porn, which in itself, has become the “norm” for millennials who see it as sex education and conduct themselves accordingly. Plastic has replaced warm, human flesh. While this widely used approach will surely produce an orgasm, it will be animalistic and short (22 seconds on average).
Protect the energy of your Inner Goddess by only fuelling her with the energy of those that love her as much as you do.
Sex is a core function of humanity. It plays a huge role in the physical health and vitality of the body. Abuse and overuse of sex, as with any addiction, affects those things negatively. Thus, anything that feels manipulative, guarded, or insensitive is certainly not safe or sacred. Experiencing sex this way takes us away from the present. The present is the only truth there really is. It takes us outside of ourselves, when, really, the holy grail — sex as communion with the soul — is a possibility that exists within us any time, all the time. Sex is an immense, intense, universal force that can merge your spirit (your divine essence) with your body. It is, simultaneously involution (spirit descending) and evolution (physical ascending) meeting at the heart in an explosion of pure love. But to fully experience sex in this divine way, we must engage in it sacredly. One way to do this is to embrace the act of sex as worship of your partner and a sacred representation of the divine — no matter how different you imagine these things to be. You get out of it what you put into it. Exercise your devotion muscle. Fake it till you make it. By holding this highest vision for your partner, you will be loving them into their best expression of their divine design. This is truly divine principle in action. Yes, you are a healer now.
Love Being A Woman